Check your thoughts

A friend of mine Nikki posted a blog here and it prompted me to repost this one of mine.

See what she had to say

This is how it is

I will start by saying we are all entitled to our opinions but you must know an opinion is just that. If you can't bring any facts behind it, it will always remain an opinion. Now let me give you facts.
Reference: http://www.merriam-webster.com
Model: a person or thing that serves as a pattern for an artist; especially : one who poses for an artist.

Prostitute: to offer indiscriminately for sexual intercourse especially for money.

Whore: a woman who engages in sexual acts for money; a promiscuous woman.

For you ignorant fuckers (sorry just an injection of my opinion.)
Hoe: any of various implements for tilling, mixing, or raking; especially : an implement with a thin flat blade on a long handle used especially for cultivating, weeding, or loosening the earth around plants.

Now that you have the facts in front of you, let me help you put your opinions in perspective. When a woman enters the field of modeling whether commercial or adult, it is a business. Models aren't prostitutes, whores, or "hoes" by profession. When you open Smooth, King, Black Men, or even Playboy magazines the women there are not the displeasing title that several people tend to what to hand out to them. There are nothing more than models. Women I'm sure several of you wish you could be with and many women wish they could be.

I find it interesting and disturbing both at the same time that some men/women can put down a model which give them some pleasure in some way. To often I hear "Look at this hoe...damn she fine!" bad grammar and all. Now, what's wrong with this picture. Is it okay to put her down as long as you lift her up somehow? I'm going to stand on a firm HELL NO!

Just because a woman's work calls for her to be scantly clad at some points doesn't make her any less than you. There are plenty of women out here who help some of you get your rock off daily. Let me just name a few

Sapprial Chanel
Deeca
Sun Karma
Lyric
Chyna Doll
Amber Fox
Bridget Thomas

The list could go on and on. Though I can't account for their private lives I can say what I know about business. I know and/or have met all of these women and they are Models. Though you may not respect the craft that is their job.


Now, it may be a little more personal to me for many reasons. It's no secret that I model. Now, most of you have never seen my resume. Let me just say I can hang with the best of the best because that is what I am. I have posed for adult magazines, been in commercials on television, and probably come to your house in ads or catalogs I have shot. Oh! and let's not forget I have owned my own adult website. When you come across my work as a model here is what you won't get or see. Antonyms for My Work: bad, poor, substandard, unsatisfactory; atrocious, execrable, wretched; deficient, disappointing, failed, inadequate, inferior, average, normal, ordinary, typical; mediocre, second-class, or second-rate.

I refuse to let you judge me because you can't see past your nose. If you lived a little, life would seem a whole lot brighter to you.

Now you may say that a woman who works in the adult side of model is one of the names which are incorrect description then I have to say this.Check your thoughts once again. She is still a MODEL! Models aren't fucking for money. Now if one moonlights selling ass then she wears more than one hat. If you don't have proof again, you are giving your opinion.

Now, if you have been offended by this maybe you need to open your mind. If you feel me then sound off. Let me hear what you got to say no matter your opinion!

It's just it!!!

I have a question. How is it that you can give a person the best of you as a friend but they see what isn't there?

I am a friend of unconditional nature. I try my best to pick people who see things the same way I do. I can not function in a chaotic world. I refuse to attempt to do such. In all of my efforts to maintain a balanced life with all that goes on, things slip between the cracks. People slip between the cracks. Things can become complicated when things happen between friends that can't be taken back.

Once you open gates that can't be closed with friends life often takes a turn you weren't ready for. There is no amount of recanting or wishing to put things back the way they were. No matter what you tell them they always think you mean something else.

If you are my friend and I mean truly my friend you know I say what I mean and I mean what I say. If I tell you I am done, I AM DONE! I am not sure why I can flip a switch but it has protected me for years so I love the option of having it. It has often been referred to as my "cold-blooded switch" because once it's done I am at the point of no return.

Well, I am at the point of no return and the switch has been flipped. I don't want anything from a friend but unconditional friendship. I want what I put out. I deserve that. Don't try and read me because I am not predictable. I never have been and I never will be. Accept what I say for what it is. I don't have to sugar coat or placate my ideas to make life suitable for a rouge living in bliss. I say what I mean and I mean what I say.

Girly Girl

Girly Girl

Well I do declare
I have an issue that raises my hair.
I am a girly girl and I for some reason should not be
Is it that stud like girl you want me to be.
Is it the girly girl that you don't like in me

Well I guess you know that, that's a joke
because I am a girl who love her full length fur coat.
Leave my M.A.C. I will not dare
and don't you dare tell me to cut my hair.

I am a girl who loves to show her curves
I know how to show them without putting on airs.
I love to squeeze in my push up bra
I love to be admired from afar

I am a girly girl and I love being me.
Hell that's how I get booked with my agency

If you can't accept me for who I am
See ya later pal because I am who I am!

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©2007 Dazelle Yvette