Friday, January 16, 2009

Whore is Hustling REBUTTAL

O.K. So I said "Whoring ain't Hustling" will a friend of man name J decided he wanted to play devil's advocate. So, we have decided to make this a He Said-She Said Posting.

Since I like the idea so much will be continue with these types just to get you opinions on both sides. Without further delay I present to you

He Said-She Said
Whoring is Hustling
by
J


Whether it’s right or wrong does not take away from the truth that prostitution is hustling.
In some cases a prostitute may have to work harder for their money then others to get their clients.

Data backing me up

To copy the definition of “hustle” from here it is:

3 a: to make strenuous efforts to obtain especially money or business b: to obtain money by fraud or deception c: to engage in prostitution.

So by the very definition of the word hustle in the dictionary whoring is hustling.

In most cases prostitution or whoring however you may feel comfortable saying it, is in most cases more honest than other hustles. Now what do I mean by that? A prostitute is being honest and letting one know that he or she is willing to do acts as long as they get paid. You have some not all but some man and woman that lead people on by giving them the impression that they have an interest in them. By doing so they get as much as they can financially from that person. Yes I’m taking about gold diggers. If you look up the definition of a gold digger it is: a person who uses charm to extract money or gifts from others. Yet that is not against the law. A gold diggers lies yet that is legal. A prostitute is honest in letting you know they want money in exchange for their services yet that is illegal. It just doesn’t stop there. You have your realtors, lawyers, politicians, officers, and I can keep on going that mislead and lie to people yet it is an acceptable hustle. I’d rather deal with honesty if you ask me.

Now what is really so wrong with prostitution as long as it is being practiced safely and by that I mean using protection. It is their body that they are using and they are not hurting anyone. If anything they are providing satisfaction and in some cases fulfilling someone’s fantasy. Now is that really so wrong? Yes they are using their body to get money but isn’t stripping using your body and looks as well to get paid? Isn’t sex operators using their voice to get paid by turning someone on and getting them off? Are they hurting anyone? Yet all those are hustles as well. Some people may not agree or think those are respectable jobs yet they are a hustle as well.

Sometimes someone does not want to deal with the stress and issues of the dating game and just want to enjoy the company and satisfaction of another. No headaches, no strings attached, and sometimes yes even cheaper. You date and date and sometimes even get lead on. Spend all this money on courting someone and they may not be honest with you and let you know they not interested. Paying a prostitute for their attention and affection that you may want at the moment in some cases is a lot more convenient then going thru the dating game.
So why am I bringing up prostitution and dating comparisons? To point out prostituting is a service provided by someone who gives you what you ask for in exchange for money where as others may lie and take advantage of you and get nothing in return. With prostitutes at times may get you more bang for your bucks.

In closing I wanna say this, I’m not saying I agree with prostitution or not I’m just saying it is a hustle respectable or not. Maybe a good topic for discussion to follow “Whoring ain’t hustling” should be “Should whoring be legal”.

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Another one bites the dust

Okay ! Now I have told my friends that if they are going to be an exotic dancer there are three things they need to know. The three rules are so basic that they are flawless.

Three simple rules to going into dancing.
Get in
Get On
&
Get OUT

There is no secret to the meaning. It is as clear as the platforms they wear on their pretty little feet. It is not code for:
Get in the club and find a trick
Get on a trick and ride him into the sunset or get on drugs
or
Get out of the club by way of being fired for breaking the basic rules of the club


So, having said that, a former friend of mine has gotten the boot from the *Litter Box. I can understand if you were fired because they caught you not reporting all of your money because they take way to much from the girls. I can even understand if you were released of your contract by not agreeing to bleach your hair blonde as one of the managers so desperately wants all the girls to do. My poor poor idiotic former friend fell hard after I was no longer there. She fell into the drug girl crew. She not only fell she allowed people to cloud her vision.

This chic not only started making less money but she gained weight and lost her focus. We are talking about a person who it wasn't unheard of to make $800 on a day shift. So, this is the second person to get fired because she was caught with cocaine in her bag. Oh wait the other girl's cocaine fell out of her bra as she was checking out to go home.

I swear exotic dancing isn't about sex, drugs, and dumb girls. Exotic dancing is a stepping stone. You are not there to make friends. You are not there to make a career of it. It's plan and simple. Stack your paper!

Get In
Get On
&
Get OUT

Get in a good club and established
Get on the list of girl who they call for to VIP or Get on your Grind
(make what you can within a year or 2)
&
Get OUT~~~ Really Get the hell out of the business


* is a place which detail will be given in my book

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Whoring ain't Hustling

Ok so the title implies a great deal. I am pretty sure some of you may disagree. I welcome all you have to say. If you are a Whore (street slang hoe) then what you are doing is not a real hustle. It may be a lifestyle but it sure as hell isn’t a true hustle. You may think you're getting over or getting one leg up(no pun intended)
but, you are really just in a vicious cycle of nothingness.

Data backing me up
HUSTLE: to obtain by energetic activity b: to sell something to or obtain something from by energetic and especially underhanded activity c: to sell or promote energetically and aggressively d: to lure less skillful players into competing against oneself at (a gambling game)

Now, what that says in layman's terms: get out there and get on your business. Most of you get respect because you are making it do what it do and others, what you sell might piss some folks off but… it’s still totally legal all 50 states.


Escort: a term for a woman paid by the hour, not the act, but usually for sex. A prostitute. Often, higher quality and cost compared to street

Laymen’s term: you too are a whore. You might get paid more but, rest assured, you are still a Whore.

Whores have gotten creative as how to find tricks too. I have even seen some pose as net models to lure them in. Some even have their own hub. Let me say this. A hoe is a hoe! We all know what and who you are. You can change your name, cut off part of your face in pictures, blur your face, but your IP address never lies. If you have to hide what you do, should you be doing it at all? Is there someone you don’t want to know what your illegal deed is that you do? Here’s an idea! Why don’t you take your talent of posing for pictures or designing your elaborate site and build a paysite, now that is legal across all state lines. You can live an easier life if you untie the mattress from you back. Standing upright would feel great. You could finally kiss your loved ones feeling free of wondering ...where the penis in my mouth last night has been.

I will be the first to admit that in the past if I could have been paid crazy money just to hang out with someone, I would have been all over it. Now, if you want to mount me or even imply... an As$ kicking is sure to happen. I am not touch or user friendly. I have always carried mace and a weapon and I have never been afraid to use them. Oh, and you don’t wanna make me call my boys.(shouting out loud...Raaaay Raaaay LOL) Since we don’t live in a world of candy-drop houses and pure goodness, I will stick to being a worker in the rat race of life. My hustle is tight!

If I have ruffled your feathers then you my friend just might be a whore. What you are doing is illegal and prosecutable in 49 states… (Yes stupid even Nevada) Being a whore in Sin City will have you calling your mother for bail. What will you say? ...Mom, I was out on my hustle and the po-po just picked me up for no reason. So, that would not only make you a jailed whore but a stupid one too.

In closing I would like to say this. I know folks who walk on both sides of the line. This isn’t a knock at them but reality is reality. If you are wondering where the 1 state that having sex in exchange for money is legal and indeed a real hustle, I’ll tell you but I will not post it in my blog. Click Here.

Dazelle Yvette
Beautiful Inspirer

Sunday, January 4, 2009