Monday, December 21, 2009

The great COP debate

Ok, so I had and issue today which prompted me to make that statement below. What happened to me is as simple as a cop lied to me about the way something would be handled. I despise liars. It's not the 1st time it has happened. I had no way to know that it would spark a great debate, to my surprise which included one of the good apples in the bushel of cops. I know there are good cops but I keep running into the bad one. Not all of my occurrences are for legal issues, some were just happening to see them off duty at gatherings and such.

Let me give you and example. I was driving down 95th street here in Chicago when I saw a Marathon gas station being robbed. I did everything a civilian is supposed to do. I called 911. While was stuck at an abnormally long red light and was able to witness the robbers going in and as they exited. As 2 of the criminals ran out (three went in) a cop car pulled up next to me. I waved to get them to roll down their window. When they finally did I told them the gas station was being robbed. They told me "I'm off duty now" while they were still in the cop car. I was in shock the light turned green and got on the expressway and hoped the person inside wasn't hurt. "Serve and Protect" yeah ok.

These are some of the comments my facebook post prompted.

Dazelle Yvette I hate cops... how are we supposed to trust to let them serve and protect when they lie to you. THe bastards!

3 hours ago Only Friends · ·
Stacy Nelson
Stacy Nelson
that's why i'm suing some!!!
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Dazelle Yvette
Dazelle Yvette
You should then kick the bastards in the nuts afterward.
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Orlando Caison
Orlando Caison
dont let the bad apples turn you so sour. It really is a lot like the movie Crash
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Jesus Moreno
Jesus Moreno
The ones to watch the most are cops...they're more dangerous them most criminals.
about an hour ago · Delete
Orlando Caison
Orlando Caison
Until you need police assistance
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Gershom Rangai
Gershom Rangai
Unless it is to give a ticket or some other money making objective, the police rarely offers assistance. The lack of respect that members of the police force complain about comes from them moving away from what they are supposed to be doing, protecting and serving, and instead looking for ways to raise funds for the department.
Sad that there are more bad apples than good in the bushel...
57 minutes ago · Delete
Jesus Moreno
Jesus Moreno
and what to do when you need assitance from cops themselves....if I kill someone I go to jail. If they kill someone they take a nice vacation with pay.
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Orlando Caison
Orlando Caison
Don't knock it unless you live it as they do, it is always easy to give opinions from the outside
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Jesus Moreno
Jesus Moreno
My my views is not based on opinions is based on personal experience with them. As much as some may wanna live in a fantasy world...not every cops is honest. Just like not every cops is a bad one not everyone is an honest one. There is a lot of documented history of cops being locked up for being dirty....those are facts not opinions. I work with law enforcement as well so my opinions are also from the inside.
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Nefertiti Hurt Harris
Nefertiti Hurt Harris
Honey what happened? Are you ok?
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Liz Sachnoff
Liz Sachnoff
hmmm... how to answer. The truth is that they would rather give a ticket (get ur $$) than protect you. They find time to show up in court for your stop sign violation, but cant find the drug dealer that is blowing trees in their face! Y when taxpayer money is suppose to cover their expenses, do they have quotas on tickets to fill? Someone defend that!!
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Nefertiti Hurt Harris
Nefertiti Hurt Harris
Amen, because it is normal to stand on a corner of an abandoned building at 3am where no buses run, and it's 10 degrees outside and they drive by to give us a ticket for a tail light out. Go figure, I worked on that side and it is stupid...
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Thursday, December 17, 2009

Why our children need proactive parents.

So, I have come to understand why I say on my son's teacher's all the time. It pays to be proactive. I got a notice that my son was receiving and F in English...the language he speaks and Literature...the language he read. This was more than alarming to me so I sent his teachers an email to get a full understand of what was going on. Its no wonder why some kids struggle in public schools. I moved to share the emails that were exchanged between one of his teachers and myself.

Before reading this I have to say he was missing assignments they have since been turned in and he has been restored to the A-B student I have always know he is.

Without further ado...
FROM ME
Hello,
I am more than a little concerned because I got a report that states Austin is receiving a F in English. I have not heard from anyone and I have no idea why this is the case. Communication has seemed to come to a total halt. I can only work with you all if there is communication and if it is constant. With that said. Can you all please let me know what is missing, late, and or needs to be corrected.

FROM HIS TEACHER
Hello-
Thank you so much for your email regarding Austin's grades. You are correct that Austin has an 'F' in English. He turned in one assignment very late and received 15/30 pts. However, currently he has 0 pts for his Greek God and Goddess Domain project that was due on 12/2. I have asked him at least three times for it and he has said everything from he left it at home, to my mom is checking it. We are now in 2nd quarter and I feel it is time that Austin begins to take responsibility for his work. Ms. TEACHER is there to help him get packed up at the end of the day, and then Mrs. TEACHER is there as well to double check his homework. Are hope is that you can log on to PowerSchool to check Austin's grades, and missing assignments as frequently as you would like. This will allow you to have a better idea as to what assignments Austin has/has not turned in, as well as his current grades for all of his classes.
I also wanted to let you know that Ms. TEACHER will be emailing you as well. Austin was apart of her book club, and did not turn in his journal, which was a major part of his grade. Ms. TEACHER asked him multiply times for this, and again he did not turn it in. His current grade for book club is 250/ 500 which is a 50%, this is a major part of his Literature grade, which will cause him to have an 'F' in Literature as well. Please encourage him to get this journal into Ms. TEACHER, as soon as possible.
I hope this helps answer your questions. We are all looking for Austin to take responsibility for his work and turn it in when it is late. Please use PowerSchool to help keep track of the assignments that he is missing as well as his grades. Please let me know if you

HOLD UP...No this trick didn't!
FROM ME
Hello,

Thank you for taking the time to respond to my email. I am more than sure that Austin brought his assignment about the Gods and Goddesses to school because I helped him with it. If things are getting twisted as to which assignment is which then I would need some clarification. As I have been from the beginning of school I am a very proactive parent in my son's education. I am sure you are aware of that. Austin has an IEP to assist in these manners, as a matter of fact, we had a meeting to specifically add homework help. The IEP gave him extra time to write down his assignments and Mrs. TEACHER to assist at the end of the day. If Austin were able to do these things without assistance he would not have an IEP. There are several days that Austin's assignment book comes home not signed. I have no idea if he was assisted or not. I spoke with you in the beginning of the year about the homework page on the website. I even offer help to update it if needed. It was barely updated and that is why Mrs. TEACHER was added to the homework help process. If Mrs. TEACHER is to double check his homework then I have never heard anything to the tune that his work wasn't being turned in. Getting Austin at a level where he can be self sufficient is the goal but surely you don't expect that to happen in one quarter. IEPs are not put in place to work in one quarter. I am well aware that I can check the PowerSchool site but I only used that when we were having problems and I was alerted of such issues. So, having said that, I would love if we can go back to our communication level we had at the beginning of the school year. I know it's extra work but it's why we had a meeting to institute an IEP for my son int the first place.

Respectfully Yours
Dazelle
My thing is if you are going to try and be snippy... as an English teacher where in the hell did you get your degree... Don't be an ass if you're not going to spell or grammar check. Now, I know I make my share of errors but dang!

Sound off! Whatcha got to say?